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Showing posts with label Parenting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Parenting. Show all posts

Monday, October 8, 2012

'Unfit Solely Based on Their Disability'

A few years ago, when a lot of my work involved digesting child protection cases, I toyed with the idea of writing a blawg post on the issue of parents with disabilities whose children had been taken into care by the Province. 

Actually, I did more than toy with the idea; I began keeping track of those type of cases when they crossed my desk and started actively searching for ones from other provinces. In fact, I may still have that research around here somewhere although I would most likely be hard pressed to find it now.

Obviously, I never did get to that blawg post. Mainly because it became clear that the issue was huge and it was going to take no small amount of research and writing to put something together. And I was, in all fairness. rather occupied with other things at the time.

But the issue still fascinates (and disturbs) me from both a legal and parental point of view.

The test in such a situation is always (supposedly) the "best interests" of the child. Parents do not have a right to parent their children. Rather, children have the same basic rights and fundamental freedoms as adults and the additional right "to special safeguards and assistance in the preservation" of their rights and freedoms. And the presumption is that a child's needs will be best met in the care of his or her own family. 

But a presumption is not a certainty. Thus, parents are given legal "responsibility for the care and supervision of their children" and children are only to be removed from that supervision "when all other measures are inappropriate".

So at what point does it actually become the case that parents, due to their disability, cannot properly care for their child? And is it possible that children would ever be taken away from their parents due to some form of systemic discrimination against persons with disabilities?

But then again, can it even be that simple?

There are physical disabilities and there are intellectual disabilities. And there are individuals who have both. And, of course, most importantly, each case will should turn on its own unique fact situation, right?

All of which takes me to this report out of the US setting out the following issue:
A federal agency is warning the White House that more protections are needed to ensure the parental rights of those with disabilities.

Even as an increasing number of Americans with special needs choose to become parents, laws across the country routinely undermine their rights, according to a National Council on Disability report which was sent to President Barack Obama on Thursday.

In two-thirds of states, courts are allowed to deem a parent unfit solely based on their disability. And, disability can legally be taken into account in every state when assessing what’s in the best interest of a child, the council found.
The key, of course, is found in that last paragraph.
In two-thirds of states, courts are allowed to deem a parent unfit solely based on their disability. And, disability can legally be taken into account in every state when assessing what’s in the best interest of a child, the council found.
I have no issue with the second sentence - that "disability can legally be taken into account in every state when assessing what’s in the best interest of a child".

But it's one thing to take disability into account (just as you would take into account other factors, such as the support available to a family or parenting style) and completely another to disqualify a person from parenting their own child just because they have a disability. That, I would submit (and I'm sure you would agree) smacks of discrimination.

Apparently the National Council on Disability agrees. And the numbers are staggering.
Currently, some 6.1 million children in the United States have parents with disabilities. They are significantly more likely than other kids to be forcibly separated from their parents, the federal agency found.

Estimates suggest that among parents with intellectual disabilities, removal rates are as high as 80 percent. Similarly high rates are seen among parents with psychiatric disabilities.

Meanwhile, the council found that people with special needs are more likely to lose custody of their children after divorce and have more difficulty adopting kids.
Although I'm not aware of any Canadian province providing that the courts are allowed to deem a parent unfit solely based on their disability, I have a hunch that the situation is not that different in this country, albeit on a somewhat smaller scale. And although it would be really interesting to see the numbers for Canada, to the best of my knowledge, no one is actually paying attention. Or, at least, no one is compiling those statistics.

In the US, the National Council on Disability is recommending that new laws be implemented to protect the rights of parents with disabilities and that social services agencies work to better understand and accommodate parents with special needs.

Does that sound like too much to ask?

Monday, June 18, 2012

Oldies But Goodies

Check out this list of  Psychology For You* parenting videos available from the IWK.

And don't forget to check out their list of Upcoming Presentations!

  • An Overview of a Treatment Approach for Children with Autistic Spectrum Disorder (Feb 9/09)
  • Parenting the Young Worrier: Tips and Strategies (Jan 12/09)
  • Parenting Youth with Chronic Illness (Nov 24/08)
  • Early Detection and Treatment of Children with Autistic Spectrum Disorder (Oct 6/08)
  • Too Scared to Speak: Helping Your Child Overcome Shyness or Selective Mutism (Sept 22/08)
  • Helping Children Cope with Anxiety and Fears
  • How To Talk To Teens About Weight in a Weight Obsessed World (Dec 7/07)
  • Seeking Common Ground: Managing Challenging Adolescent Behaviour (Nov 20/07)
  • Hands-On Strategies for Helping Children who have ADHD (Oct 23/07)
  • Getting Your Children to School when they Refuse to Go (Sept 18/07)
  • Stress Management and Relaxation (Jun 12/07)
  • The Stepparent - Stepchild Relationship: Strategies For Helping Youth Adjust To A New Family (Apr 17/07)
  • "Mom, My Stomach Hurts!": Helping Children With Recurrent Pains (Jan 16/07)
  • Navigating the School System: The Art of Advocacy for Parents of Children with Special Needs (Oct 3/06)
  • When Your Children Fight (Sep 12/06)
  • Parenting Children With Behavioural Difficulties (Apr 25/06)
  • Eating Disorders: Why Treat Children Differently Than Adults (Feb 28/06)
  • Treating Childhood Obesity: What Parents and Professionals Can Do To Help (Jan 10/06)
  • Sleep During the Early Years: Common Difficulties and Strategies to Help (March 2009) 

* Psychology for You is an education series provided by IWK Psychologists as a free, public service to the Maritime Community. The videos above are recordings of previous presentations from January 2006 - March 2009.